Truly? How odd. Where I'm from it's considered inappropriate only for the interest to be blatantly obvious and spoken of. And mostly because having heirs is important for the continuation of the nobility's bloodlines. Among those who are not part of the 'well-to-do', I don't think it's commented on much at all by anyone regardless of interest.

[Outside the Circle, of course. Any romantic intent was actively discouraged in the Tower. Particularly that of man and woman for fear of a child being produced. But going into that would take the conversation in a direction that was probably best to be left alone for the time being.]

Does that mean some of your members are interested in more than just women on a not-so-professional level?