"I'm already free," he said with a shrug, "But that doesn't mean I don't like meeting people and being around them. If I'm already judged as undesirable..."

Wan sighed and shook his head and smiled ruefully, "It's about the same as it's been for the last four years, I guess. But I'm glad to know that you're not alone in that. Having a family you can go to sounds great. My family is all gone."